Confessions: The Trilogy... Part 1

Time for a confession…

I had almost orchestrated my relationship’s own demise.

True, we’ve been somehow at loggerheads these few days, of which I’m partly to blame… She complains that I do not give in anymore, whereas on my part I’ve got a few other factors that I contemplate. For the issue of picking her up from work, who is really giving in? Me or her? I’ve yet to figure that one out… That’s a complicated one cause that involves sacrifices that both parties are more than willing to make… So it is really subjective… Next is how much should I give, and yet still stand tall as a man? Chauvinistic? I’m a guy so sue me… But seriously, its more like “I don’t want to be a ‘Yes-man’!” kind of feeling… Especially when certain things I think are rather uncalled for… If one were to give in to his gf every time, I’d think he’s soft and does not really have his own opinions, but I’m not advocating to stand on your rights and opinions all the time, ‘cause that’ll make you an arse to be with… So the question here really is how much is too much? How far do you go making your point? When do you give in to her requests? Do you give in, even though you know for certain it’ll create more harm then good?